The year is winding down fast, and for a lot of us that means last minute shopping! It’s incredibly stressful wandering around the store thinking about which item to get a friend or loved one – or all the wonderful people in your life that are doing all the behind the scenes work. I’m talking about those special people involved with your child(or children’s life) or if you don’t have kids, all those special extra people in your life. Favorite bus driver? Instructor? Neighbor? Church member? The gift you choose doesn’t have to be expensive either. Let’s face it, most budgets are barely covering Christmas presents this year. What are some great alternatives to charging up yet another credit card so we won’t offend someone?
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I hope you were all able to enjoy Mother’s Day, spending it with those that meant the most to you. Whether it was the woman who gave birth to you, adopted you, or raised you; each woman in your life is special and deserving of the title “Mother.” This, of course, extends to those newer Moms out there who are newly pregnant or have young children. Enjoy the ride, take too many pictures and spend as much time as you possibly can with them. They grow up too fast, and you can’t makeup for the lost time.
With all the special gifts we can exchange over any holiday, the best gift to give is self esteem. Too many women of all ages are suffering, sometimes in silence due to not feeling adequate. You are all capable, beautiful, smart, and worthy! Remind yourself each day, and remind those wonderful women around you too. Let’s work hard to keep that gift going! Fresh flowers are always a bonus too.
It is that time of year again. You know, worrying about what to do for Valentine’s Day. Should we go out? Should we go away? Will he finally propose? Instead of the traditional ways to celebrate, why not change things and create a new tradition for you and your partner, or if you are single, for yourself? There are so many ways to celebrate that don’t have to include something that is overly sexual.
Married / Long term relationship: You had better put some serious effort into whatever you are doing. Whether it is a nice dinner out on the town, or a special candle lit dinner for just the two of you, it needs to be something personal and with thought behind it. You should know your partner well enough to know what they will find memorable and special. Don’t forget the flowers either and a gift. I suggest you two hire a babysitter (if you have kids) and cook together. If you both aren’t the cooking type, enroll in a class together. Plan to start something that will help you two grow together and just have fun.
Somewhat serious dating: This is when you have been with the person under a year and have only recently decided to become exclusive. This doesn’t require that much of a commitment on Valentine’s Day but fresh flowers and a simple gift works best. This does not require the big ta-do, even though a lot of you expect it. It’s not fair to expect all of that from someone you have a fresh commitment with. Valentine’s Day is not a competition.
Casual daters / Single people: If you and your current other half haven’t made plans yet for the big day, don’t sweat it. In fact, I’d suggest you and your single friends go out to a singles party that night or plan to have your own singles mixer. This is a great way to meet other singles or just make a new friend. It doesn’t have to be overly done and can simply be a pizza, beer and Netflix night. Break out your baking tools and create Valentine’s Day cookies or a cake together. It can turn very intimate if need be.
Family Valentine’s Day Party: It is a growing trend for kids to be part of the celebration. I know some schools still have parties dedicated to handing out Valentine’s Day cards, candy, cookies and other sweet treats. Don’t stress that all the food and desserts have to be red or pink in color – the fact that you are spending quality time together as a family means more and will have a lasting impression.
Get creative this year, and don’t break the bank – unless you were planning on buying that $10k ring. There are plenty of ways to make this romantic holiday special instead of handing out a coupon book for free hugs. It is important to remember to give and share – love is more than expectations, pressure and jewelry.
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