I am tired of all the gimic-y fitness things going around lately. Currently, there seems to be a market for owning your own fitness company, selling shakes, and promoting a “clean” lifestyle. It’s all well and good but let’s look at the reality of the fitness movement – some of these folks use crash diets or various forms of starvation to achieve such results. Where is the emphasis on being healthy? Why is there so much judgement on those who don’t “look” healthy? I think it’s disgusting and disturbing that such hate is spewed out on women and men who don’t fit into a certain ideal or size. It’s time to take back your voice, power, and your health. It’s time to take back your time in the sun. I think the first step is realizing the reality of your health and fitness level. I will break down each section to open up the dialogue on what it means to have a realistic fitness plan.
Your mindset: It is time to get real. Put away the magazines, stop coveting those pins you helplessly pin on Pinterest, and stand in front of the mirror. Accept who you are, your body, your beauty, and where you are right at this very moment. Take stock of every line, curve, and ripple. It is vital to love that person you see starring back at you. Having a healthy and positive mentality will go a lot further than busting out another 35 minutes on a treadmill three times a week. It is what will get you to your goals faster and trickle down through the rest of your life, creating greater change.
What is going in your mouth: Counting calories, eating “diet food” and generally trying to eat less/starving yourself in an effort to slim down is the worst thing for your body. I avoid buying any diet version of anything or low fat dairy products. It usually means there is more crap that you don’t need to ingest versus healthy fat that your body does need. The best guide to live by is eat smaller healthier, fresher meals more often through the day, and drink more water! Avoid adding any extra salt, sugar or fat. There are a lot of ways to add flavor without the other additives. Bake or grill instead of fry, utilize garlic and peppers instead of salt – the list is endless. I also throw in eating some avocado each day. Of course the big one is limiting those yummy carbs. That was my biggest sacrifice. For some people it’s soda, but for me it’s pasta. It was *so* hard at first but now I have taught myself how to have a healthier relationship with it. This goes for bread and pizza too. The other cutback was booze. There is nothing wrong in having a drink or two every so often if you enjoy it. Just be mindful of having too many. Beer bloat is a bitch! Love fast food? Who doesn’t! Sometimes all I want to devour is a cheeseburger, fries and a milkshake. (Okay, maybe all the time.) Moderation is key – remember it and live by it. Even if you make a mistake, don’t beat yourself up. In time, you will be making healthy choices regularly and wonder how you got along before.
What is coming out of your mouth: No, I’m not talking about tossing your cookies. I am talking about what you say about yourself, your goals, judging others, or judging yourself so harshly. There used to be a SNL sketch with the guy talking to himself in the mirror before and after each show he did. It was a hilarious sketch but we should stop to check ourselves out in the mirror and tell ourselves how awesome we are on a regular basis. Even if it’s once a day, remind yourself how powerful you are. This will help set the tone in your day and help keep your mind focused on your goals. It also will help others around you who may have a terse word about someone else. Planting that seed of positivity may help them second guess their accusation that is about to fly from their mouth.
Your health professional: If you don’t presently have a health professional or see one regularly, you need to take care of that. Women especially need to take their health seriously from a young age. You need to see your primary care physician each year to make sure from top to bottom you are healthy. This is more than just stepping on the scale. They should run routine blood tests to rule out any other issues going on so you are ahead of the game. Furthermore, it is most important that this person actually listens to you and respects you as a human being. If you feel they are being condescending, find someone else. Talk to your friends and loved ones who can suggest someone great. They should be there encouraging you, not making you feel bad because you don’t fit in their textbook ideals. The other doctor a woman should have is a gynecologist you can trust. Your sexual health plays a key role in your overall health. Even if you aren’t sexually active, they will help keep you aware of what’s going on if anything changes or they find a lump in your breast. Prevention is your best friend.
Your physical activity: It really is as simple as that. What are you doing to get active and stay active? Realistic weight loss, as in losing inches and body fat takes time. Pace yourself, work smart, and remember to have fun. If it’s not fun you will not stick with it. It’s that simple. Take the stairs, park farther from the store, do squats at your desk, keep free weights at your desk – whatever you can fit in your life. Don’t forget to add weight lifting to your routine. A lot of people leave it out because they are scared to gain muscle mass. You can’t get toned through cardio alone, or diet and cardio alone. I’m sure Michelle Obama lifts free weights to maintain her awesome arms. Start small and stay motivated. Get some friends together to stay accountable for each other. If you do decide to join a gym, make an action plan to be there 2-3 times a week. You can do this.
Fitness can be a hard thing to navigate through, especially with the clique’ish fads, juicers, and the F word (fat) being thrown around like a weapon. What is most important is how you feel about yourself, your health and your happiness. Anyone can poke and prod their bodies just to appear thinner but at what cost? Your health is most important. Safe guard it, and prosper.
My general workout attire. It’s from my, “I could care less about expensive fitness clothing” collection.